Pain researcher Dr. Pavel Goldstein was at his wife’s bedside during the delivery of their daughter.
Labor is said to be among the most excruciating types of pain humans can suffer.1
Dr. Goldstein is one of the world’s top experts on pain. But as his wife went through labor, he felt helpless.
“My wife was in pain, and all I could think was, ‘What can I do to help her?’” he said. “I reached for her hand it seemed to help.”
After Dr. Goldstein held his wife’s hand, she said she felt less pain.2
“I wanted to test it out in the lab,” said Dr. Goldstein. He’s a pain researcher in the Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience Lab at Colorado University Boulder.
He wondered, “Can you really decrease pain with touch?”3
|Dr. Pavel Goldstein: Love is a pain-relieving drug
(Photo: University of Colorado Boulder)
His research team recruited 22 heterosexual couples ages 23 to 32. All of them had been together for at least a year.
They hooked up the couples to electroencephalography (EEG) scanners to measure their brain activity.
Specifically, they were looking for a synchronization in the couple’s alpha mu brain waves. They are associated with pain relief.4
The researchers put the couples in three different situations while measuring their brain activity:
- Sitting in separate rooms
- Sitting together and not touching
- Sitting together holding hands
Then they repeated the scenarios. But this time they put the women in mild pain by applying a heat probe to their arms.
They found that if couples were in the same room, their brain waves synchronized. If they held hands, the synchronization reached even higher levels. In separate rooms, there was no notable synchronization.
The more synchronized the couples’ brain waves, the less pain the women felt. Being in the same room helped alleviate the pain. Holding hands alleviated the pain more.5
“This paper illustrates the power and importance of human touch,” said Dr. Goldstein.
The study was recently published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.
Why Does Holding Hands Relieve Pain?
How can something as simple as holding hands stop pain?
Dr. Goldstein’s team theorizes that touch can make a person feel understood. When the brain senses that affirmation, it activates pain-killing reward mechanisms, the study concluded.
“Interpersonal touch may blur the borders between self and other,” the researchers wrote. This makes the person feel connected and not alone with their pain.
The new study confirms previous research showing the benefits of physical touch.
A 2015 study by Carnegie Mellon University researchers found that human contact boosts your immune system. People who experienced daily hugs for two weeks were less likely to get the flu when exposed to the influenza virus.6
Another study at the University of North Carolina found that people who received more hugs or other forms of “warm touch” from their spouse or long-term partner enjoyed:7
- Higher levels of the hormone oxytocin, which is responsible for feelings of pleasure
- Lower blood pressure
- Reduced heart rates
What if you’re not romantically involved?
Another study at the University of Amsterdam found that even hugging a stuffed animal has benefits. Researchers found that holding a teddy bear significantly reduces stress and depression.8
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